purity · relationships

Is Kissing Okay? What To Do When You’re Tempted To Touch

No sex before marriage — the mantra of all Christian couples. But is that all there is to physical boundaries? In Part I of this series on boundaries in relationships, QUEK SHI YUN suggests a different view.

purity · relationships

“Can You Cover Up?” What My Boyfriend Said On Our Date

Tanktops or spacesuits? No idea what we’re talking about? Read on to find out! LANG and EVELYN TIEN open up about the awkward conversation that jumpstarted their journey with modesty.

purity · wisdom

What Clubbing Taught Me About Purity

Wait what? Can clubbing teach us anything about purity? Turns out it can. ISABEL PHUA tells all.


5 Lies About Sexual Purity

1. It's Not Just A 'Guy Thing' Hands up if you thought that sexual purity was just a thing guys struggle with. As a youth leader, girls have told me that they struggle with pornography, masturbation, or fantasy. They are sweet, talented and, by any standard, good Christian girls. Some are leaders in church too. [...]

holiness · purity · relationships

The Two-Timing Game – Why Do People Cheat?

Why do people cheat? Is there something wrong with them? DOROTHEA WONG reflects on cheating in relationships and how we’re ultimately all guilty.


Visual Reality

Lecher. 色狼. Pervert. 变态. Sex maniac. These are words that we often use to describe people who watch porn or are satisfied by R-rated movies—typically, guys. But I would like to tell you this straight up: Girls do talk “dirty”, look lustily at guys, and watch pornography. Girls are prone to having lustful thoughts too. [...]